Loss of a Loved One.

I realize it has been a while since my last post, but a lot has been going on and I have been contemplating how to share it all. As you know in a previous post I mentioned that my dad was in the hospital over Christmas, but what I have not yet blogged about is that right after my dad was released from the hospital my grandpa went in. Now, it is never good when someone goes into the hospital, but to make a long story short my grandpa was showing some positive signs (from what my wife and I heard anyway) of recovery (i.e. he was eating and didn't need a breathing tube as originally thought), so my wife and I didn't make it an immediate priority to go visit him at the hospital since that is where were have been spending most of our time from my dad being there. Well, a day finally was coming where it would work for me to visit him over my lunch hour and during my morning devotional time I was reading out of Acts Chapter 4 and I planned on reading that Chapter to him and talking about how it applied to us today and share Jesus with him for he hadn't yet repented and trusted Jesus from what I knew. Then, as I was pulling out of my driveway to go to work my mom called and mentioned that my grandpa in hospital (her dad) passed away in the morning. I pulled the car over. So much for sharing the gospel and God's word with my grandpa that day. It wasn't going to happen. Thankfully, I had an opportunity two Christmas's ago where I gave a very clear gospel presentation (see good person test on this page) to him and my grandma, so I knew he had at least heard about repenting and trusting in Jesus as his Savior. Boy, I can't image how I would have felt if I had not shared Jesus with him at an earlier date. I know I would have felt horrible.

Onto the funeral or the celebration of life as they called it. The event was held at a nice restaurant/bar where appetizers would start to be served at 5:00pm with a short ceremony at 7:00pm to follow. Now, I thought that was weird to have it at a restaurant/bar (although, at least he was cremated, so it wasn't like a casket with a dead guy in it was brought through the restaurant) and I also felt it was a bit sad. I mean, who when thinking about their funeral celebration expects it to occur at a restaurant/bar with people having drinks and socializing. It just seemed weird. I just thought the entire concept lacked hope. Well the time eventually came for the celebration. The food was actually good, but it was weird to eat right away with some people crying. Overall, the conversations were good, but people were walking around with drinks in hand. That also seemed weird. The time came for the short service. Thankfully I knew the minister who would share the message and I knew he knew Jesus Christ and would share appropriately. What I didn't expect was to be called out in front of everyone to share something about my grandpa. I hadn't planned anything to say or share about my grandpa, but I went upfront to the podium because I thought that was what God wanted me to do. After sharing a little bit about my grandpa's personality and hobbies, I proceeded to share with everyone what my plan was for that morning I found out my grandpa had died. I stated I was going to visit my grandpa during lunch that day and then I mentioned that the message I was planning to share with him, I guess I was supposed to share with all of you. I then proceeded to share my testimony of trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior, then I pleaded with them to do the same and not waiting to make the decision for Christ, for no one is guaranteed tomorrow. I urged them to trust Christ today...tonight! I will say that after that service was over and the hope of Jesus Christ was clearly proclaimed that the presence of Jesus was at that place. It was an amazing feeling. Jesus was meeting people were they were at. Then I thought...what if I had kept my mouth shut. Would that light of Jesus then be present in that dark place? What if, when asked to share something, I stated I had nothing to say? What if I kept my mouth shut, who then would tell them about Jesus? Would I just count on those present having a chance to hear about a future hope of eternal life in Jesus some other time or by someone else? What if that night was their last night to hear about Jesus? Thankfully, I didn't keep my mouth shut and did share the amazing hope found in Jesus Christ, who went to cross to die for my sins and for you. Would you have done the same? Would you have kept your mouth shut? We must always be ready to share the hope that we have in Jesus. I encourage you to be ready. No matter the situation, be ready! Remember, no one is guaranteed tomorrow.

"Walk in wisdom towards outsiders, making the best use of time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." Colossians 4:5-6

"Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes." James 4:14

What Hollywood Wants You To Believe.

Please take a moment to watch the clip below from the TV show 'Parenthood' which my wife and I enjoy watching on Tuesday nights, but in this episode they got one important aspect regarding heaven very, very wrong.



No, No, No! That is not how it works at all! Not everyone gets to go to heaven! The Bible is very clear that only those who have repented and trusted by faith that Jesus paid for their sin debt will be able to go to heaven. Those who have not put their faith in Jesus Christ will go to Hell (a very real and extremely unpleasant place). That is just the way it is.

"But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire ans sulfur, which is the second death." Revelation 21:8

Please don't be fooled to think that by doing enough good things that you will be able to go to heaven. The Bible says in Ephesians 2:8-9, "For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not of your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast." You see, it is a gift from God and no one can do enough to earn there own way to heaven. It cannot be done. Think about it...wouldn't heaven be quite a boring place listening to everyone brag about what they did to get into heaven.

If you have more questions about what it takes or doesn't take to get to heaven, I urge you to please click the "Good Person Test" logo on the top right part of the page. Consider what is shared and if you have not yet repented and placed your faith and trust in Jesus Christ to pay for your sin debt. Please do it today! Tomorrow may be too late.

You know, in wrapping this post up, it is very likely that not everyone will end up in heaven because of their hardened and proud hearts, but God's free gift is for everyone. Therefore, everyone has the chance and/or choice to go to heaven. Which will you choose? Life or Death?

Christmas Meaning!

Hope you had a Merry Christmas! I know we did. It was different, but it was good. We had our family, but it was nothing like any other Christmas when compared to previous years. You see three days before Christmas Eve my dad goes into the ER from being very, very ill. I mean he couldn't move and was blacking out. He thought he just had a bad case of the flu, but come to find out he was having Kidney failure, many different infections, low blood pressure and kidney stones. He was then rushed to the MICU until the day before Christmas Eve where he was then transferred down to the regular hospital and stayed there until three days after Christmas. You see, what was different was that we ended up spending Christmas at a hospital. We didn't have our traditional time together of opening presents or an evening dinner together. Now to many that would seem disappointing because tradition was broken and as a result many would think that Christmas was ruined. However, it actually made our family focus on what is really important during Christmas and that is being together as a family and focusing on our Savior, Jesus Christ being born of a virgin and sent into this world to save us from our sins. We actually had a wonderful time of reading the birth story of Jesus Christ at the hospital and even though may dad was not feeling very well (dry heaves & bathroom visits) we all felt empowered by spending time with God by being in His Word. Now, as I mentioned earlier, it was a different Christmas, but it was a good Christmas!

Now, usually around the Christmas season we enjoy watching "How the Grinch Stole Christmas", but due to events outside our control we did not watch it this year until New Year's Eve. It's a pretty funny movie, but it ends up really having a very practical meaning. A meaning that so many people often miss when it comes to the holiday rush. I found it very interesting that in the clip below and how it points out that Christmas is not all about presents, packages, bows, etc., but it's really about something so more [than just material items]. I feel this clip really shows what it was like for our family this Christmas. It was about being together as a family in an imperfect place and an unfortunate time (Christmas Day) which gave us the opportunity to focus on the many blessings God gives us. Our family together and Jesus born into this world just for us. Please take a moment to enjoy the clip below and have a Happy New Year! I would also encourage you to never take anything for granted. Make the most of every opportunity, for things may never be quite the same again. As God's Word says in James 4:14, "Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes."

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